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How to negotiate equity and stock options in a job offer

Key takeaways

Start by working out what the grant is actually worth. Multiply public-company RSUs by the share price and divide by the vesting period. For startup options, ask for the 409A valuation, your fully diluted ownership percentage, and the latest preferred price. Then compare total compensation against market data and ask for more shares, faster vesting, or a shorter cliff. Equity is often more negotiable than base salary.

The equity chapter of the video starts where this player picks up, scripts on screen. The full transcript is on the salary negotiation tools post.

What are the four types of equity compensation?

RSUs (Restricted Stock Units) are the simplest. The company promises to give you shares of stock on a set schedule, usually over four years. You don't pay anything to get them. When they vest, you own the shares and can sell them immediately if the company is public.

If you get 100 RSUs and the stock trades at $150, your grant is worth $15,000 at today's price. The actual value when they vest could be higher or lower. RSUs at a large, stable company are close to a cash bonus paid in stock. RSUs at a volatile tech company could swing 30% in either direction by the time they vest.

One thing people miss: RSUs are taxed as ordinary income when they vest, not when they're granted. The tax bill comes whether you sell the shares or not.

ISOs (Incentive Stock Options) give you the right to buy company stock at a locked-in price, called the strike price. Common at startups. If you get 10,000 ISOs with a $2 strike price and the company eventually goes public at $20 per share, each option is worth $18. Your 10,000 options are worth $180,000.

The catch is that ISOs are only valuable if the stock price eventually exceeds your strike price. At a startup there is no guarantee the stock ever clears that bar, and many never do.

ISOs have favorable tax treatment. If you hold the shares for at least one year after exercising and two years after the grant date, your profit is taxed as long-term capital gains instead of ordinary income. That's a meaningful difference.

NSOs (Non-Qualified Stock Options) work the same way as ISOs mechanically. You buy shares at a strike price, profit on the difference. The only difference is tax treatment: the profit when you exercise NSOs is taxed as ordinary income. NSOs are common for contractors and advisors.

Startup options vs. public company RSUs. This distinction matters more than anything else on this page. RSUs at a public company have a concrete, liquid value. You can sell them the day they vest. Stock options at a private startup have a theoretical value based on the company's last valuation, but you can't sell them until there's an IPO, acquisition, or secondary sale. That could be years away. Or never.

How do you figure out what an equity grant is worth?

For public company RSUs: Multiply the number of RSUs by the current stock price. Divide by the vesting period (usually four years) to get the annual value. 200 RSUs at $300 per share is $60,000 total, or $15,000 per year. Look at the stock's performance over the last few years for context on how stable that number is.

For startup options: valuing the grant requires four questions the company may not volunteer.

What's the current 409A valuation?

This is an independent appraisal used to set the strike price. Ask for the number and when it was last done.

What percentage of the company do your options represent?

10,000 options sounds impressive until you learn the company has 100 million shares outstanding and you own 0.01%. Ask for your ownership percentage on a fully diluted basis.

What's the latest preferred stock price?

This is what investors paid in the most recent funding round. Compare it to your strike price. A big gap means there's built-in value, assuming the company keeps growing.

What's the company's runway and path to liquidity?

Options are only worth something if you can eventually sell them. A pre-revenue startup with 12 months of cash is a very different risk profile than a profitable company preparing for an IPO.

If the company won't share this information, that's a red flag. They're asking you to make a major financial decision blind.

How do vesting schedules work?

Most equity uses a four-year vesting schedule with a one-year cliff. Per Carta's 2026 vesting guide, time-based four-year grants remain the overwhelming standard at VC-backed companies, and at least 95% of cliffs are set at the one-year mark.

The four-year part means your total grant vests incrementally over four years. The cliff means you get nothing during your first year. On your one-year anniversary, 25% vests all at once. After that, the remaining 75% vests monthly or quarterly over the next three years.

The cliff protects the company from giving equity to people who leave early. From your side, it means year one is all-or-nothing.

Not every company uses this structure. Amazon famously backloads its vesting (5% in year one, 15% in year two, then 40% in each of years three and four), a schedule documented across compensation sites like Levels.fyi. Always ask for the specific schedule, not just the total grant.

How do you negotiate an equity offer?

Equity is often more negotiable than base salary because it doesn't hit the company's immediate cash flow. That's your opening.

Do the math first. Add up base salary plus the annual equity value plus bonus. Compare that total to market rates on Levels.fyi, Glassdoor, or Blind. If the total falls short, you have a data-backed reason to ask for more.

Frame it that way: "Based on my research, total compensation for this role at comparable companies is $180,000 to $220,000. The base is strong, but the equity brings the total to about $160,000. Could we discuss increasing the equity grant to bring the package closer to market?"

This works because the ask is grounded in market numbers rather than in feelings or entitlement.

Negotiate the structure, not just the number. Beyond asking for more shares, consider:

Accelerated vesting on change of control. If the company gets acquired and your role is eliminated, accelerated vesting protects your unvested equity. Some companies offer one year of accelerated vesting in this scenario.

Early exercise. At startups, exercising options before they vest (filing an 83(b) election) can save a lot on taxes. Not all companies allow it. Worth asking.

Refresh grants. Ask whether the company gives additional equity after your initial grant vests. Many public companies do annual refreshes, but the size varies widely.

A shorter cliff. If the one-year cliff feels risky, some companies will do six months for senior hires.

Use competing offers. A competing offer with better equity is your strongest card. You don't need to share exact numbers. "I have a competing offer with a stronger equity package" gives the company a reason to improve. Most companies would rather increase equity than lose a candidate they've decided to hire.

Should you take startup equity or public company equity?

Choosing between startup equity and public company RSUs comes down to your risk tolerance and your finances.

Public company RSUs are predictable. You know what they're worth. You can sell them the day they vest. If you have a mortgage, kids, or any financial obligation that depends on steady income, RSUs remove uncertainty from the equation.

Startup equity is a bet. The breakout stories about early employees whose options paid for houses are real, but for every breakout there are hundreds of startups where the options ended up worth zero. The expected value might be similar, but the variance is enormous.

A reasonable approach: make sure your base salary and benefits cover your financial needs comfortably. Treat the equity as upside potential, not money you're counting on.

How is equity taxed?

RSUs are taxed as ordinary income when they vest. Companies often withhold shares to cover the tax, so you'll receive fewer shares than your total grant.

ISOs can trigger the Alternative Minimum Tax (AMT) when you exercise, even if you don't sell. If the spread between the strike price and market value is large, the AMT hit can be substantial. People have been blindsided by six-figure tax bills from exercising ISOs at startups that later crashed.

NSOs are taxed as ordinary income on the spread at exercise.

Early exercise with an 83(b) election converts future gains from ordinary income to capital gains rates, but you're paying taxes on unvested shares you could forfeit if you leave.

Exercising is also a real cash decision, and most employees skip it. In the fourth quarter of 2024, employees at startups on Carta exercised just 32.2% of equity grants that were both fully vested and in the money, per Carta's data team. "Exercising options is expensive. If you're a person who's not wealthy, which is most of us, you are going into your savings and having to make a serious decision about where you're investing your extra capital," SignalFire partner Heather Doshay told Carta.

All of this is complicated enough that a tax advisor who specializes in equity compensation is worth the fee. The cost of professional advice is almost always less than the cost of a tax mistake.

The question to keep asking yourself

When evaluating an equity offer, keep coming back to this: if the equity turned out to be worth zero, would you still be satisfied with the base salary and the role?

If yes, the equity is genuine upside. If no, you're taking a compensation cut disguised as a bet. That's not always wrong, but you should make that choice with your eyes open.

For a deeper look at how to structure counter-offers and handle pushback in salary negotiations, Four-Leaf's comp negotiation tool walks through the process step by step.


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